Kris’ Corner- Pats, Praise & Accolades

So here’s the thing: if you are looking for lots of pats on the back or praise and accolades, being a foster parent (or any job in social work, actually) might not be for you.   To be fair, it’s not that no one sees what you do or that your time, energy and effort are...

Kris’ Corner- From The Trenches: part 9

This is the last blog in this series (which was supposed to be small but ended up being about 6 more posts than I anticipated) …because there are just so many things about which I want you to be aware. I want your eyes as open as they can be. And even though you’ll...

Kris’ Corner-From the Trenches: What I Wish I’d Known part 8

So…court is one of those things that, at least for us, there was not really much talk about before or while we were getting licensed.   Oh sure…I might have heard a foster parent say, “They had court today.” But for whatever reason I didn’t really dive in to find out...

Kris’ Corner-From the Trenches: What I wish I’d Known part 7

I  touched on this a little bit already but want to emphasize this particular point: you need to be flexible when you’re a foster parent. This is always true at the initial placement, but this need for flexibility WILL, most likely, run the entire course of the case....

Kris’ Corner-Kids From Hard Places at Summer Camp

You guys…I realized that I need to pause in the middle of the series about “What I Wish I Knew” to share a little bit about what’s been going on in our lives and encourage those of you who may be struggling with the idea of letting a kid from hard places attend a...